﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>justcinful's Xanga</title><link>http://justcinful.xanga.com/</link><description>Latest Xanga weblog from justcinful</description><language>en-us</language><ttl>60</ttl><image><title>The Weblog Community</title><url>http://s.xanga.com/images/xangalogobutton.gif</url><link>http://justcinful.xanga.com/</link></image><item><title>Thursday, February 24, 2005</title><link>http://justcinful.xanga.com/210429444/item/</link><guid>http://justcinful.xanga.com/210429444/item/</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Feb 2005 00:45:39 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;A href="http://justcinful.blogspot.com" target="_new"&gt;I've Moved!&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Come and see me at my new place on the web!&lt;/P&gt;</description><comments>http://justcinful.xanga.com/210429444/item/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Thursday, February 24, 2005</title><link>http://justcinful.xanga.com/210426129/item/</link><guid>http://justcinful.xanga.com/210426129/item/</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Feb 2005 00:41:33 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;A href="http://www.adagio.com/" target="_new"&gt;Adiago Teas&lt;/A&gt; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Oh so yummy &amp;amp; delicious! If you are a tea-a-holic you really need to check out this site!&lt;/P&gt;</description><comments>http://justcinful.xanga.com/210426129/item/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Saturday, August 21, 2004</title><link>http://justcinful.xanga.com/123652269/item/</link><guid>http://justcinful.xanga.com/123652269/item/</guid><pubDate>Sat, 21 Aug 2004 03:12:13 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;DIV&gt;
&lt;DIV&gt;&lt;B&gt;&lt;FONT color=green&gt;Pecan Defection&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Syrupy sweet,&lt;BR&gt;Nutty confection.&lt;BR&gt;Warm&lt;BR&gt;crusty &lt;BR&gt;embrace.&lt;BR&gt;Endless craving.&lt;BR&gt;Filling, luscious, &lt;BR&gt;gluttonous &lt;BR&gt;rapture.&lt;BR&gt;Ecstasy.&lt;/DIV&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;B&gt;&lt;FONT color=green&gt;Treacherous Tastes&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I was not born in the South.&amp;nbsp; But try telling my taste buds that.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I love &lt;A href="http://www.cyber-kitchen.com/recipes/Abbys_Pecan_Pie.htm" target=_new&gt;pecan pie&lt;/A&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Crave it.&amp;nbsp; Must have it.&amp;nbsp; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;It is my nemesis.&amp;nbsp; It is my lover.&amp;nbsp; It is my downfall.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Here in the land of the cheese steak and soft pretzel, my tongue could be strung up for treason.&amp;nbsp;(&lt;EM&gt;That would give a whole new meaning to the phrase &lt;/EM&gt;"&lt;EM&gt;tongue-tied&lt;/EM&gt;".)&amp;nbsp; Or at the very least, scrubbed with sandpaper until they begged for mercy.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Don't even get me started on &lt;A href="http://www.grits.com/tea.htm" target=_new&gt;sweet tea&lt;/A&gt;.&amp;nbsp; If pecan pie is my lover, then sweet tea is my &lt;A href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0867195304/qid=1093061147/sr=8-6/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i6_xgl14/103-9762003-4531868?v=glance&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;n=507846" target=_new&gt;dominatrix&lt;/A&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Tie me up, whip me, beat me, pass me the lemon and call me sunk.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;</description><comments>http://justcinful.xanga.com/123652269/item/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Monday, August 16, 2004</title><link>http://justcinful.xanga.com/121668196/item/</link><guid>http://justcinful.xanga.com/121668196/item/</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2004 01:46:13 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT color=green&gt;&lt;B&gt;The Challenge&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;My husband used to be in the USAF as an Ammo Troop.&amp;nbsp; Now he has found himself longing for mementos of his military days.&amp;nbsp; We no longer live near an Air Force base, so we find ourselves in a quandary.&amp;nbsp; He wants things that relate to "Ammo" such as coins, license plates, etc.&amp;nbsp; It seems that once you are out of the military these things are not so easy to obtain.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I have tried ebay for them, but they only offer so much.&amp;nbsp; It seems as though the few things that they do offer are the same things over and over and over again.&amp;nbsp; Web searches pretty much turn up the same thing... nothing.&amp;nbsp; That is unless you want to pay $500 to get a die made and a minimum order put in for coins.&amp;nbsp; Yikes!&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Hubby would love to have just a regular Ammo challenge coin.&amp;nbsp; Nothing fancy, just the basic one with the pisspot on the front and the "providing the enemy the opportunity to die for it's country" on the back.&amp;nbsp; I would love to see him be able to get coins from his three main bases:&amp;nbsp; Incirlik AFB, Turkey; Hurlburt Field, Florida and Elmendorf AFB, Alaska.&amp;nbsp; The trouble is finding the plain (no colors added) bronze or silver coins.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;If anyone knows where to get these coins, please let me know.&amp;nbsp; As for right now I am going back to running another web search.&amp;nbsp; Wish me luck!&lt;/P&gt;</description><comments>http://justcinful.xanga.com/121668196/item/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Friday, August 13, 2004</title><link>http://justcinful.xanga.com/120889066/item/</link><guid>http://justcinful.xanga.com/120889066/item/</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2004 22:59:38 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT color=green&gt;&lt;B&gt;Pearls of Wisdom&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Or at least little nuggets of humor.&amp;nbsp; Have you ever read the comic strip "&lt;A href="http://www.comics.com/comics/pearls/index.html" target=_new&gt;Pearls Before Swine&lt;/A&gt;"?&amp;nbsp; It's offbeat.&amp;nbsp; It's quirky.&amp;nbsp; It's too good not to share.&amp;nbsp; Every day my best friend and I giggle with glee over the antics of a dense pig and a rat bent on world (&lt;EM&gt;or at least the comic strip world&lt;/EM&gt;) domination.&lt;/P&gt;</description><comments>http://justcinful.xanga.com/120889066/item/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Friday, August 13, 2004</title><link>http://justcinful.xanga.com/120801685/item/</link><guid>http://justcinful.xanga.com/120801685/item/</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2004 18:25:02 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT color=green&gt;&lt;B&gt;Gone Greek&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Seems everyone is getting into the Olympic spirit.&amp;nbsp; Even &lt;A href="http://www.google.com/" target="_new"&gt;google&lt;/A&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Check out those pecs... um... I mean pics.&amp;nbsp; One wonders... What &lt;EM&gt;do&lt;/EM&gt; they wear under thier togas?&amp;nbsp; Are there stories and jokes of Greeks and goats like Scots and sheep?&amp;nbsp; There's just something about a man in a skirt.&lt;/P&gt;</description><comments>http://justcinful.xanga.com/120801685/item/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Friday, August 13, 2004</title><link>http://justcinful.xanga.com/120766451/item/</link><guid>http://justcinful.xanga.com/120766451/item/</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2004 16:38:55 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT color=green&gt;&lt;B&gt;Days Gone By&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Today I stumbled across this &lt;A href="http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=mswhitney" target="_new"&gt;site&lt;/A&gt; where there are postings of one guy's view of life while stationed in Iraq.&amp;nbsp; It's actually posted by his SO and she gleans the little "on" topics from their online chats.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;It brought back memories of my hubby and our communications while was stationed in Kuwait and Iraq&amp;nbsp;during Desert Storm.&amp;nbsp; Strange to think that although it was not so very long ago, back then it wasn't common for the email/internet thing to be happening.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Computers back then were strictly for military and medical needs (at least in the places where my SO was).&amp;nbsp; If you were the tech who worked on the computer you might be able to sneak something back to your loved ones.&amp;nbsp; If you weren't then you could either try to call home (&lt;EM&gt;if&lt;/EM&gt; a phone was available &lt;EM&gt;and&lt;/EM&gt; at astronomical rates) or do the letter brigade with everyone else.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Thank goodness for the advent of technology.&amp;nbsp; I remember waiting for those letters like it was crack.&amp;nbsp; Had to have one to know that he was alright.&amp;nbsp; Reading each letter over and over again.&amp;nbsp; Having memorized it by the thirtieth time through, but needing to hold it in your hands why your eyes eagerly skipped over every precious word.&amp;nbsp; Getting worried if the time span was too long between "fixes", etc.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Having the technology along while the boys and girls are out in the sandbox is a great comfort.&amp;nbsp; To those there, and those left behind.&amp;nbsp; What the word of a loved one can do is a miracle.&lt;/P&gt;</description><comments>http://justcinful.xanga.com/120766451/item/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Thursday, August 12, 2004</title><link>http://justcinful.xanga.com/120337588/item/</link><guid>http://justcinful.xanga.com/120337588/item/</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2004 15:12:35 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT color=green&gt;&lt;B&gt;I'm Such a Slacker&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;It seems as though I pop into Xanga just to pop right back out again.&amp;nbsp; That's right, I'm a naughty, naughty girl.&amp;nbsp; Go ahead and whip me with a wet noodle.&amp;nbsp; Whip me!&amp;nbsp; Whip me!&amp;nbsp; Whip meeeeeeeee!&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT color=green&gt;&lt;B&gt;Thrown&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Okay, so I am not really into flagellation by pasta.&amp;nbsp; After all, you're supposed to eat your spaghetti &lt;EM&gt;not&lt;/EM&gt; play with it.&amp;nbsp; I wish someone could explain that to my rowdy two year old.&amp;nbsp; She has made the assumption that she's the next &lt;A href="http://www.jacksonpollock.com/" target=_new&gt;Jackson Pollock&lt;/A&gt; and that the whole kitchen is her canvas.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;The dog is her biggest fan.&amp;nbsp; Now only if he paid for her artistic endeavors.&amp;nbsp; By now we could be making quite the comfortable living.&amp;nbsp; Enough to keep us in pampers anyways.&lt;/P&gt;</description><comments>http://justcinful.xanga.com/120337588/item/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Monday, January 26, 2004</title><link>http://justcinful.xanga.com/59114094/item/</link><guid>http://justcinful.xanga.com/59114094/item/</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2004 14:52:27 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT color=green&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;Whatever Happened to Goodbye?&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Perhaps in a way I want to be a control freak.&amp;nbsp; I may go slightly insane wondering if it is unreasonable to get a goodbye.&amp;nbsp; Or at the very least a "I'm going out".&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;My husband has once again left the house.&amp;nbsp; Just opened up the door and went outside to shovel the drive.&amp;nbsp; Then he must have felt like getting in the car and leaving.&amp;nbsp; Without a word.&amp;nbsp; Without one single lousy word.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;And without his cell phone.&amp;nbsp; Which means that I can not call him.&amp;nbsp; I can't just dial him up and say, "Hey whatcha doin'?".&amp;nbsp; Instead I am here with the kids left to wonder just where he went.&amp;nbsp; Wondering when he will return.&amp;nbsp; Wondering why it is to friggin' hard to say "I'm going to the (&lt;EM&gt;insert destination here&lt;/EM&gt;)." before heading out.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;What does get me, besides the lack of complete courtesy, is that I could never do the same.&amp;nbsp; Well, I could.&amp;nbsp; But in my case I would catch hell for doing so.&amp;nbsp; "Walk out and leave your children unattended?&amp;nbsp; Leave without an explanation of where you are going?&amp;nbsp; Not even saying when you will return?&amp;nbsp; How dare you!"&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Picture these phrases the kinder, edited for television version of what I would catch.&amp;nbsp; Not to mention the silent treatment or the guilt trip that lasts for days on end.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Yet, still I sit here wondering if it's just me&amp;nbsp;being unreasonable.&amp;nbsp; Where oh where is that ton of bricks to fall on me when I need it?&amp;nbsp; Wake up girl and demand some respect!&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT color=green&gt;&lt;B&gt;*****UPDATE*****&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Hubby and I have had a talk.&amp;nbsp; He still does not realize that it takes two to tango.&amp;nbsp; Or in this case that both of the parents are responsible for the children.&amp;nbsp; But he is getting better.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;It's not that I resrtict him from going out, goodness knows it is the opposite.&amp;nbsp; I am always encouraging him to go on out with friends, etc.&amp;nbsp; It's just that I would like to know where he is going and an approximate time as to when he'll be back.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;That in itself is not too much to ask.&amp;nbsp; It is just a reasonable request.&amp;nbsp; And a most admired point of being an adult... responsibility.&lt;/P&gt;</description><comments>http://justcinful.xanga.com/59114094/item/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Monday, January 26, 2004</title><link>http://justcinful.xanga.com/59059493/item/</link><guid>http://justcinful.xanga.com/59059493/item/</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2004 04:52:26 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;FONT color=green&gt;&lt;B&gt;Snowbound Midnight&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;What is it about a snowy landscape at night that makes one think of peace?&amp;nbsp; It is if a quiet serenity fills the land once it is blanketed by snow.&amp;nbsp; As if in some fashion that delicate layer of crystallized water somehow erases all.&amp;nbsp; Or rather hides the untidiness of the world from our eyes.&amp;nbsp; Leaving instead a purity of emotion, a rarity of calm, a salvation from ourselves and our every day lives.&amp;nbsp; Greedily we soak it in.&amp;nbsp; For at the back of our minds we know that it is but a moment.&amp;nbsp; Soon the world will go on, the quiet broken and the sun will rise to awaken the chaos that is life.</description><comments>http://justcinful.xanga.com/59059493/item/#firstcomment</comments></item></channel></rss>